Traditional Wiccan covens often get a bad rap—labelled rigid, stuck in old ways, and out of touch with the modern world.
But the reality is far more flexible and dynamic, especially within traditions like Alexandrian Witchcraft.
The core of our tradition isn’t about following a set-in-stone book of shadows.
It’s about curiosity, experimentation, and constantly asking questions.
The Myth of Rigid Coven Structures
When people hear the term Traditional Wiccan coven, they often think of exclusive, formal settings where everything follows strict procedures.
In reality, covens like ours thrive on adaptability.
For example, the Alexandrian Tradition—where I serve as a High Priestess—has always encouraged exploration and pushing boundaries.
Yes, we honour the ancient ways, but we also believe in breaking norms when it makes sense.
This might surprise those who assume a traditional coven means sticking to the same old rituals without variation.
A Personal Perspective: Blending the Magical with the Mundane
Let me share something personal.
Many people envision High Priestesses as these ethereal, otherworldly figures, but here’s the truth: We’re just regular people navigating everyday life like everyone else.
I work with technology, which you wouldn’t expect from someone dedicated to the mystical arts.
I also live with autism, love video games, and I'm probably the worst cook you'll ever meet. My dog is my emotional anchor, and sometimes, my life is far more mundane than magical.
Yet, I balance it all.
Being a witch—especially a High Priestess—isn’t about detaching from the modern world.
It’s about harmonizing the spiritual with the practical.
We aren’t avoiding the everyday struggles; we’re embracing them while also diving into the unseen and unknown realms of magic.
Inclusivity vs. Exclusivity in Wiccan Covens and Modern Paganism
One of the hottest debates within modern Wiccan and pagan communities is inclusivity vs. exclusivity in coven spaces.
Should covens remain small and tight-knit, or should they be open to anyone seeking knowledge and spiritual growth?
Many assume traditional covens, like those in Gardinerian Wicca (and Alexandrian Tradition, of course), lean towards exclusivity, keeping things private and secretive.
But that’s not always the case.
The real power in a coven comes from its ability to foster both personal growth and community support.
It’s about creating a space where diversity is embraced, while still maintaining the sacredness of the circle.
Yes, covens are intimate spaces, but they don’t need to be cut off from the larger world.
In fact, many of us believe that inclusivity strengthens our practice, allowing a rich exchange of ideas, experiences, and energies.
The trick is balance:
Holding strong to tradition without shutting out the future.
Finding the Right Coven for You
For those interested in joining a coven, the key is finding a group that allows you to experiment, grow, and explore.
Wiccan covens aren’t just places to learn old rituals; they’re spaces where you can test your boundaries and find your own path within the structure.
When seeking a coven, consider these tips:
Research coven structures: Is the group inclusive or exclusive? Do they welcome new members or prioritize keeping the circle small and tight-knit?
Consider your personal growth: Will the coven encourage your development both as a witch and as an individual? Can you experiment with different practices or follow a strict path?
Ask about modernity and tradition: How does the coven balance honouring ancient rituals while adapting to modern life?
The right coven will give you space to explore the magical while helping you navigate your day-to-day life.
The True Power of Witchcraft: Balance
At the end of the day, the real power in witchcraft comes from balance—balancing tradition with innovation, and balancing the magical with the mundane.
We can’t afford to separate our magical work from our everyday lives.
Wicca and paganism are living, breathing spiritual paths that should evolve along with us.
The right coven isn’t just about sticking to old practices—it’s about growth and community.
This is the core of our tradition: honoring the old ways while adapting to the world around us.